New Year means a new way of thinking. The truth is I have always worried far to much about what others thought and about trying to make others happy. Guess what no more. I want to stop worrying about what others think or might say (easier said than done). Everyone has an opinion just because they don't agree with what you do or want to do does not make them right. They are entitled to their own opinion. This year is going to be about me and what I want. Yes I know that sounds completely selfish and it is but sometimes that IS OKAY! I feel like the past several years I have bent over backwards for everyone else and listened far to much to other people instead of doing what I wanted and somewhere along the way I feel like I lost a part of myself. I plan to make several changes to myself and to my life because lets face it if your not happy something needs to give. Nobody is perfect nor does anyone have a perfect life. You can however make the best with the cards you were dealt and the choices that were made.
These are going somewhere so they can be a reminder daily (just need to figure out where).
And as a constant reminder the one above is what I put on my EC planner for this year so I will be reminded of it every day.
Love your way of thinking for 2013! Great reminders :-)
ReplyDeleteGreat idea for 2013...I'm the same way
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ReplyDeleteLove that Eleanor Roosevelt quote! Great post. And I totally agree that being selfish sometimes is more that OK. It's a must to lead a balanced life. That has taken me a while to figure out and sometimes I still get confused but it's OK. Being selfish sometimes can help preserve who you are and your close relationships (hope that makes sense). :-) Happy New Year!
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